In March of 2015 we each went to the second birthday party for Lavinnia, the daughter of a John Deere co-worker (my old job / the Mr.'s new job). Unknowingly, we were both invited as a setup by her parents. The setup worked. By the time Lavinnia's next birthday rolled around we were engaged and wedding planning with our flower girl. Well we recently celebrated another birthday for Lavinnia but this time as Mr. and Mrs.